I Plead~ Before Raising a Voice Raise a Dumbbell

                       Save Girls Save Nation

Women Safety in India has become the most discussed topic in the nation especially after Asifa Bano rape case. The innocent 8 year old Kashmir girl was raped,drugged and starved for days before being brutally murdered. Its a tragic incident that happened to a place which was once termed as the Heaven on Earth - The magnificent Kashmir. But I guess neither earth nor heaven is spared by the devils of mankind. The heads are down , eyes are wet, heart is filled with anguish.

Everyday the vulnerable common girl wakes up in the morning with a hope of a safer and fair society but to her dismay her hope dies with the news of another brutal rape .

I am telling you girls  - "Nothing is going to change unless we don't change". 

I question you . From whom are we asking to save you ? The Government ?  Out of 6 accused in the Asifa Bano rape case , 1 is an ex-government official and 4 are police officers. Or are we expecting a known person to protect us ?  More than 90% of the time its the known who does the rapes . There is no escaping from them.

If you slip while walking you gather yourself and stand up. You do not expect or wait for others to help you. So why wait now?  No one else will come for your rescue. You have to be your own Hero.

Its time that girls start taking responsibility of their safety in their own hands instead of depending on their brother or father or husband. Be self sufficient. Learn Karate,do push-ups, do weights to build muscles. Make yourself strong and equip yourself for any situation.

I know its pretty hard to do because since childhood we girls are taught to be sophisticated and be girly all the time. There is no harm in it but efforts should be made to make yourself powerful and strong. Do strength training don't worry you will gain muscle or you will look less attractive.  Muscle is the new swag.

When that forbidden moment arrives neither your brother nor your husband and even your father would be there to protect you. It will be you against them. And that moment only your strength and wisdom can save you.  Remember! you are not weak. How can you forget Geeta Phogat, the freestyle wrestler who won India's first ever gold medal in wrestling at the Commonwealth Games in 2010.

You are stronger than your imagination and far more strong than your false beliefs . Rise above them and get rid from the shackles of being sophisticated and weak.

God forbid if ever in your life you face this situation then give your all, use your body as weapon and don not give up till your last breath.  Atleast give them a fight of their life so that in the future they will never think of this heinous act again!

Having said that I feel giving a death penalty to a rapist is a commendable step taken by Indian government and I just hope the verdict would be taken early in such cases. But my heart cries when I see the stats stating 5 rape cases every day in Delhi in 2017 means approx 1825 cases yearly. The figures are horrifying and that too from a country where most of the deities are women.

                                           We are sacred but we are scared

                                              We are layered but we are not spared
                                            

                       
                   This time I urge not to men but to women to 'save themselves to save the nation'
                                 

                             
              Because if not you, then nobody had and nobody will.
              Be Brave not because there is no other option ,
                  be brave because you want to be one.     

You Believe you can so you would.
                                         

 This is the right way of Living.

           The culprits are never strong, they are drunk they are weak
                 They cannot take a Leap until you don't succumb to them
                                                 

               Nirbhaya Case Criminals
                                               
     Be Strong Mentally and Physically.
        There is lot you can do
                     You can Shout, You can Fight you can teach them what is Right.
                                                             

                                 
   

Always remember you are as strong as you want to be

Teach yourself your daughter, sister and wife the art of
            martial arts before the cooking class.

   

                                                                 

                               
      Its not about You, its not about Me its about Us the community                      

        

The community who gives birth to a child with so much hardship and toil and later on her daughter or she herself gets raped by the child of other women. 

No, this is not acceptable and neither we are going to spend rest of our life in the fear of getting assaulted.

It’s a Battle for Survival and not a matter of choice!

We, women of India take pledge to be strong and powerful with each passing day. 

We will not let anybody take us for a Ride! 

We are here to survive and to live a long and a beautiful Life

                                                                                                                                               I Pledge to be my own Hero!        

                                    

From a Stone Peddler to a Gold Meddler~ Women does it All

This strong image depicts what young Indian women can achieve with their hands.

The one has stone in her hand and the other one has even the mightier, pistol.

But one hurts nation and the other brings glory to the nation.

                I agree you might have issues. I agree you might have been discriminated.
                                  But are you too stoned for your own future??

 
                                 
                                    Its time to think rather rethink of your choices.
                        The choices which can either take you to the zenith of success or
                               will make you nothing more than a wasted substance.
                                   The answer lies within you and so is the power.
                                      There can be noises, there can be revolt.
                                  But remember, its you who matters the most.

                            Think twice or even thrice before you pick up that stone girl.
                                    Its not them you are hurting the most but its you.

                         This is not what you want. This is not what you aspire for.
                                       You dream of a happy and a beautiful life
                        Don't shatter your dreams by blindly following others
                                         Wake up before the dawn, 

                                     If you want to be heard, be strong first.
                              Be so strong that your voice can never be left unheard.
                                            Aspire to Inspire Others ! 

                                            The choice is completely yours!
                             Whether you want to be stone peddler or gold meddler.